Monday, March 29, 2010


This is a form of existential journey...she is shedding her old self to make new self aka evolution like a butterfly. You have to go thru a transition in a sense… be exposed before the change can take place.”

Many have stated this video was an unflattering means of publicity… and are outright appalled at the mere sight of a naked black woman, simply walking away… in such a bold attempt to get the world’s attention… Yet we don’t see or hear quite this much expression of outrage in respect to the tasteless, socially irresponsible, smack you upside your head, encryption of the insignificant, crap suffocating us every day.

We are taught… to fear, to hate, to love.
Ungroup your thought…

Badu wrote...
 "it is true, being honest can get you assassinated. Your character, spirt, & sometimes physically. The funny thing is, the physical nudity is nothing. I've been naked all along in my words, actions and deeds. That's the real vulnerable place."

“Using Kennedy as a focal point he was the last President of USA that was not about groupthink he attempted to go against the Federal Reserve and he was assassinated for it."

Friday, March 26, 2010


So I have to admit, I’ve been feeling a little uninspired lately and I wasn’t sure why. But I do know that whenever I’m feeling this way it means it’s time for a change. Sometimes a little drastic! Bold! I’m such a drama queen…


But first guess who I saw on T.V. last night that had me in complete awe of her radiance! My Baby Mama!!!
Jill Scott!

She was on the Tyler Perry show along the cast of the new movie “Why Did I Get Married Too” and OMG!!! That woman embodies the very essence of SONSEE! She is sooooo damn classy... and sultry. I swear I could not take my eyes off her!

She lit up the stage in a hot little black dress, cleavage everywhere… sexy black closed toe heels, and her signature, stylish, natural afro! And with the most beautiful smile, she was completely glowing! She talked to Tyler about how after having her Baby, “Jet” she was just now getting her SWAG back! Tyler confirmed that she definitely had it! She is oh so SONSEE!


So as I tossed around in my bed last night, I thought to myself… I want to feel whatever it was she was feeling. I mean without having to give birth to something... I need to be renewed and refreshed! It is spring time right?

Ok so I got up the next morning and looked at myself in the bathroom mirror… grabbed the scissors and started cutting. In less than 5 minutes, the little bit of hair I had was on the floor and so was I, laughing so hard! YES!!! Check me out! I cleaned up the rest with my son’s clippers… shampoo, conditioner, a little coconut oil and DONE! 

Ok, so I’m also a huge fan of the color Black! I don’t care what season it is, black is just classy and classic! I also think that seasonal fashion isn’t always about the colors... but the cuts, designs and style… So check out my new SONSEE SPRING STYLE!

Black linen ruffle dress - Old Navy...

Black leather wood sole wedges - Aldo...

Black studded suede hobo bag - Macy's...

 Fresh new boy cut - Yours Truly!

She's So SONSEE...


Wednesday, March 24, 2010


Curvy Cutie
Plus Size Princess

Full Figured Diva
Voluptuous Vixen...
Whatever title you choose there's one common factor we should ALL identify with... CLASS.

 Represent your CURVY, CLASSY, SEXY, SASSY attitude
with our stylish SONSEE Tees!


Tuesday, March 23, 2010




Friday, March 19, 2010


As much as my girlfriends and I love being  fuller figured women, there are still way too many people who just don't get it! Being a proud and confident "Big Girl" doesnt mean we completely neglect our responsibility to maintain good health. For those plus size women who do, I must say, SHAME ON YOU!

A Big Girl should still be a Healthy Girl! How can you possibly be confident when you're rotten from the inside out and falling apart? How can you LOOK good when you don't FEEL good? I don't however, believe it's all about loosing weight but about staying fit and fabulous! That's what gives the "Big Girl" her swagg.

For those who still don't understand... So sorry for you! It's not my job to convince you that I really do LOVE MY SEXY FAT ASS!!! And so do soooooo many plus sized women all over the world! This is why you're seeing so much "Plus Size" this and "Full Figured" that... I'm just sayin... WELCOME TO THE PLUS SIZE REVOLUTION!

Thursday, March 18, 2010

All Hail the Queen... She's so SONSEE!

You know very well Queen Latifah has always had that Swagg!

Big Gurl Swagg

You have to admit that there are some Big Girls out there that have so much STYLE and this amazing CONFIDENCE about themselves. You know the ones you see and say "She carries herself very well". We tend to notice these women because unfortunately there's a much higher percentage of Big Girls who just don't have IT! But what is IT? I'm glad you asked...

It is just a Big Gurl Swagg... Some have it (like President Obama... (drooling)) and many just don't. That Big Gurl Swagg is what we like to call SONSEE. For the proudly curvaceous woman with so much class, a sublte sexy appeal and sassy attitude.

But don't worry Big Girls, you too can have it! Coming soon...

She's So SONSEE... The Big Gurl's Guide to Big Gurl SWAG!

Wednesday, March 17, 2010


If you’re anything like me, you too have been looking for a more creative and original way to say “Plus Size” or “Full Figured”. Probably as much as I love fashion, I also have a great appreciation for vocabulary and creative word usage. So I busted open my thesaurus, using the word curvaceous (my favorite) and basically went searching… is where I stumbled upon a word that just seemed sooooo right!


son-sy: [son-see]
Adj. 1. sonsy - (of a woman's body) having a large bosom and pleasing curves; bosomy, busty, buxom, curvaceous, full-bosomed, sonsie, well-endowed, stacked, voluptuous, curvy, shapely - having a well-proportioned and pleasing shape.